My darling

It has been a long time without seeing you, and I don´t know when we will see each other again – I think it will take a while. We have been living in different places, far places, but I know you always understand me, anywhere in the world where I´m.
Last week, I heard my brother say this sentence: ‘sometimes I wanted to be able to cry, but I can´t’. This surprised me! After I was thinking about that, and I came to the conclusion: it´s absolutely not common to see men crying, but I ask myself: ‘why not?!’, because this is sad! I never thought to hear it from my brother. Unitl today, I have just seen two men cry – that´s what I remember. They were my two ex boyfriends. I have never seen my daddy crying.
I don´t say that they have to cry, but, sometimes, weeping is good for our life. Let the tears come out, it relieves. I think if the men wept, they would feel a lot of more things, as we women do. You ever head a man say: ‘I don´t understand women’, this is obvious! Most men never attempted put themselves in ‘our place’. You know, that this is what happens always – no matter where you are in the world, it´s same.
Behind a ‘big man’ there is a great woman. She always allows us to crys, but he doesn´t know – or doesn´t want to know. They have total right to expose their feelings and anxieties and it, is good for them! I don´t understand men! Do you understand them?! If yes, can you tell me why this is, please?! I think people shouldn´t be ashamed about their feelings - don´t need to shout to the world, but we need to shout to someone about our lives. Do you agree?
However, we need be careful to whom we spoke our things – the people change their thoughts, and loyalties, faster than you can imagine. Please, help me to show men that they can cry, and it doesn´t means weakness – on the contrary: it´s shows sensitivity and self-knowledge, and that makes a man be great in our lives.
I hope you have understood me, because I´m very confused by my lack of knowledge of men. I want them to cry; I want them to talk about their fears and dreams and be unashamed!
See you soon – I hope!
Love you.